I might call myself an author, teacher, coach, mentor, or counselor, but what I really am is a “nudger”. In fact, I have at times been called “The Nuclear Nudger.” Why? Because I am compelled to lift and inspire people by helping them look beyond that which concerns them; that which controls their level of happiness, well-being and success. I want to help them discover mental and emotional causes underlying their disturbance, and guide them into self-mastery.Are You Growing through Challenges?
Every once in awhile I catch myself saying, “Boy oh boy, life is just one thing after another!” Then I laugh at myself because that’s what life is … one thing after another. The question is how do I respond to those things that happen, one after another? What’s my attitude? How do I perceive the challenges I’m facing? These are important questions for all of us, because the experience of life is all in the way we look at it. Life is filled with obstacles, hurdles and challenges, but it isn’t all about avoiding them. It’s about evolving emotionally and spiritually so that we grow through our challenges, rather than just go through them. You might have heard the…
Forgiveness is Mandatory
“Mandatory?! That means I have to do it! Why do I have to do it?!” This is what often goes through a listener’s mind when they hear a statement like “Forgiveness is mandatory.” Many people feel embittered because of something that was done to them, so those angry feelings come pouring out in comments like, “I don’t have to forgive if I don’t want to!” and “That person certainly doesn’t deserve my forgiveness!” Okay, so why should you forgive a person who has made you miserable? Because what that person did to you is not what’s making you miserable. What kee s you in misery is your emotional attachment to what that person did to you. What keeps you miserable…
Latest Book
We are so excited about the new book Phylis has written called “FORGIVENESS ..it is NOT what you think it is.” The Forgiveness Process detailed in this book goes way beyond the barrage of information already available on the subject of forgiveness. The author explains the profound negative effect unforgiveness has on the body, mind and spirit, and shares her personal discovery about what forgiveness really is, a unique and effective process for actually doing it, and a way to confirm to one’s self that it’s been done.
Stay tuned for excerpts of the book and for details on how to order the new book.