Phylis Clay Sparks - Speaker, Coach, Counselor

Welcome To My Website!

I'm here to remind you about your powerful Inner Self! Remove any interference, stomp out FEAR (false evidence appearing real), and make your Best Self even better!

Who I am...

I might call myself an author, teacher, coach, mentor, or counselor, but what I really am is a “nudger”. In fact, I have at times been called “The Nuclear Nudger.” Why? Because I am compelled to lift and inspire people by helping them look beyond that which concerns them; that which controls their level of happiness, well-being and success. I want to help them discover mental and emotional causes underlying their disturbance, and guide them into self-mastery.

I can only do this by “reading” a person at a deep level and guiding them to step back and look upon their life and its concerns with calm interest and honest observation. From this vantage point one can see around, above and through life’s challenges to the possibilities, ideas, opportunities, and solutions. From this new perspective they are no longer controlled by any person, place or thing.

I want to help as many people as possible achieve a successful, prosperous, happy and fulfilled life, while at the same time not being governed by, trapped, or lost in the human experience. My goal is to assist others at moving into the future with a higher and deeper level of confidence, enthusiasm, and excitement about taking constructive action in the direction of their desires.

Yes, I am an author, teacher, coach, mentor, counselor, and nudger. I am available to be who I am as an inspirational speaker, creator of customized classes, seminars and retreats, and as a personal coach and counselor. You can reach me at phylisophical@gmail.com. I look forward to talking with you. To learn more about my background, click on “About Phylis.”

Discussion Group

The next DISCUSSION GROUP will meet on November 10, 2019 from 10:30-Noon. The topic for the day will be Distribute the Good, all about balancing the law of giving and receiving in your life. I hope you can join us for this LAST MEETING before we take a Holiday break for the winter months. We meet at The Synergy Center, conveniently located at 5377 State Highway N, Cottleville, MO 63304. See you there!

Prosperosophy Program

The Prosperosophy 44-Day Empowerment Program IS NOW LIVE and I am SOOOO excited. The program is a video series that is emailed to you every day for 44 days and is designed to help you to become more prosperous in all areas of your life. Visit Prosperosophy.com to learn more and to sign up for the program. Thank you for your interest!

Treat Yourself To Love!

Most of us spend years falling in and out of love before we even realize that there’s another dimension to love which we didn’t know existed. When we do realize it, we begin a vertical movement into higher levels of love rather than a horizontal reshuffling of conditional human love. As we set out on the vertical path, the horizontal world gets better, too. To ascend into unconditional love, we must rise above, or get beyond the limited, lower-level, ego-based version of love. Unfortunately in today’s world we see a lot of separation, a lot of fear, a lot of conditional love just moving people around in competitive, fearful circles instead of the kind of love that heals separation and…

Hay House Radio Interview

Please take a moment to enjoy a recent interview Phylis did on Hay House Radio where she discussed her book “Forgiveness – It’s NOT What You Think It Is.” Phylis discusses the process of being ready to forgive and detaching from the negative emotions that we are holding onto. Phylis also discusses her Soul Math Process during the interview.

Welcome Video

Latest Book

forgiveness-book We are so excited about the new book Phylis has written called “FORGIVENESS ..it is NOT what you think it is.” The Forgiveness Process detailed in this book goes way beyond the barrage of information already available on the subject of forgiveness. The author explains the profound negative effect unforgiveness has on the body, mind and spirit, and shares her personal discovery about what forgiveness really is, a unique and effective process for actually doing it, and a way to confirm to one’s self that it’s been done.

Stay tuned for excerpts of the book and for details on how to order the new book. Lastly, to download my soul math work sheet click here

From Awful to Awe Full

If I were to ask anyone who speaks English what the word “awful” means, they would have no problem telling me. Everybody knows something awful when they see it, hear it or otherwise experience it. Something awful is that which is extremely bad, very unpleasant or even terrible. Awe, on the other hand, is typically an emotion which surpasses the best of feelings. It can be a feeling of reverence, absolute and utter respect, or an overwhelming appreciation of something beautiful. It doesn’t take a genius to figure out that most of us prefer feeling awe full rather than awful. The ancient sage Heraclitus once said, “Man is most nearly himself when he achieves the seriousness of a child at…

The Feeling of Freedom

This month our country celebrates freedom. The great and wise patriot, Erma Bombeck, once said, “You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4th, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness. You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism.” From the broad perspective of society, the word freedom brings to mind civil liberties, human rights, the freedom of speech, freedom of assembly, freedom of the press, religious freedom, and so on. But freedom is more than this. When we narrow the…

Are You Growing through Challenges?

Every once in awhile I catch myself saying, “Boy oh boy, life is just one thing after another!” Then I laugh at myself because that’s what life is … one thing after another. The question is how do I respond to those things that happen, one after another? What’s my attitude? How do I perceive the challenges I’m facing? These are important questions for all of us, because the experience of life is all in the way we look at it. Life is filled with obstacles, hurdles and challenges, but it isn’t all about avoiding them. It’s about evolving emotionally and spiritually so that we grow through our challenges, rather than just go through them. You might have heard the…

Beginning Again With Joy

I have addressed the topic Beginning Again With Joy as the subject of a past speaking engagement, but I feel compelled to write about it because I can see that joy is missing in so many lives. It’s certainly obvious how much joy is missing in our world. Part of the problem is, people have become preoccupied with pursuing happiness. And happiness is not the same as joy. We tend to equate happiness with joy, but they’re two entirely different ideas because they spring from two different sources. Happiness comes from momentary happenings in the world around us, while joy originates from the Spirit living within. When I speak of joy, I’m not talking about the instant rush of pleasure…